Let’s see how many people actually take the time to read this❗️Sometimes it’s the Words of a picture that gives a person their true self. Getting to know someone based on social media is hard. Miscommunication, interpretation and then some. But I can tell you I also have made some of the greatest friends because of social media who not only motivate me to be me but also who are always there even if its to listen. .
Life is messy. Yes I’m only 23. Young right? But I’ve been on almost every side of life. Been labelled by many people hurtful words, doubted, told I was not enough, humiliated and wanted to actually ruin my life . but my friends I want you all to know the real me: I love spreading joy. Being a reason someone smiles. I can tell you I will go out of my way for you. Just might take me a while but I’m there. I would never intentionally hurt anyone because that’s not how I was raised. I was raised on respect, loyalty, compassion and forgiveness. And everyone may not agree but I love being able to be filled with Gods love.Have I made stupid decisions? Yes I have and probably will make some more just not as serious. I am not perfect. I have anxiety, demons, I have a sailors mouth , I have flaws. But those should not define who I am and who i was made to be. I will not discriminate anyone. I may not agree but I will not judge you. Have I had a successful relationship with anyone? Yeah no I honestly have given up for now 😂. I may not be the most popular person, the strongest athlete , the smartest, the most sexy or beautiful girl , I don’t have all money in the world. But do those things really matter?
Who am I ? Well I’m Eve Vianna Vrudny. The girl who is getting her life in track. Who’s learning from past mistakes. But also the girl who loves to laugh, smile and care. This is me. The girl who will look for the good in anyone and everything and who just loves that bubbly life. This is me. A lot of people may not like me but I love me. #thisisme#minnesota#seriouspost#bubbly#bodybuilder#fitnessmodel#loveyourself#followme#latenightthoughts#beingme#staystrong#staypositive#stayyourself#writeyourstory#gymfidel#gymfidelathlete#gymshark
🌿• BRAVING THE WILDERNESS; THE QUEST FOR TRUE BELONGING AND THE COURAGE TO STAND ALONE • 🌿
“Belonging so fully to yourself that you're willing to stand alone is a wilderness -- an untamed, unpredictable place of solitude and searching. It is a place as dangerous as it is breathtaking, a place as sought after as it is feared. The wilderness can often feel unholy because we can't control it, or what people think about our choice of whether to venture into that vastness or not. But it turns out to be the place of true belonging, and it's the bravest and most sacred place you will ever stand.” @brenebrown. Thank you to those standing with me and to those cheering from afar. Thank you to those inspiring me as they walk their own journey. Thank you to everyone willing to show up and be vulnerable. I truly believe we are all connected when it comes down to it; when we let go of fear and hate. This is how we learn and grow. ✌️ #freedomfighter#bravingthewilderness#freespirit#fight
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Zin in courgettesoep? Kom gerust langs want ik heb straks genoeg voor een weeshuis 😁 Deze monster-courgette komt uit de moestuin van mijn ouders, na twee weken vakantie waren hun courgettes een kleiiiiiin beetje ontploft 😂 Om ze zo te eten zijn ze niet lekker als ze zo groot zijn, maar er soep van maken kan nog best. 🥣
👏🏻”If we expect our players to get better, they should expect the same from us as coaches.” My biggest gem from today’s training⭐️
⚽️Taking things to the next level so that I’m doing my part. It’s necessary, even though far outside of what I’m comfortable with. I have that voice that keeps asking if I’m really qualified or not🤦🏼♀️
🗣But let’s remember, there’s lots of things one can do that don’t require talent...
✅Showing up on time
✅Ready to learn
✅Have a good attitude
🤔Anything else you’d add to the list? #physiodocwellness
Queens. 👑 *
Take your makeup off. Watch it wash down the drain. Let it swirl and swirl far away from you. *
You’re just as worthy without it. *
I grew up with my role model wearing nothing but lipstick. My Mom would have a container full of similar colors and she would say “ I wear it because it moisturizers my lips, it has nothing to do with looking pretty.” *
She’s right, it has nothing to do with looking pretty. Why do you wear makeup? I hope your answer is, “For me”. I hope your answer is “It makes me FEEL powerful”. *
Don’t use your precious time if it’s NOT for you.
Don’t wear it for Him.
Don’t wear it for Her.
Don’t wear it for your friends.
Don’t wear it for them.
Wear it (if you do) for you.
Queens, wash your face, look deep at YOUR reflection and get to know yourself. Your worth has nothing to do with your makeup. Like my Mom said “it’s not about being pretty”. And if you wear makeup - I hope it’s just for YOU. ✨
Here I am makeup free & I am just as worthy without it. #nomakeup#imstillworthy#thisisme
4 301 hour ago
I just want daddy to huge me, call me babygirl and say everything will be ok 😔
Adoro os passeios ao final da noite com a minha Patudinha.
No final do passeio, um bocadinho cansada, ela senta-se esboça este "sorriso" como que a dizer: "estou cansada, mas adorei!" ❤🐕 #thisisme#petlover
A man told me I’m a spoiled princess because I have a heart with too much hope in others, and he didn’t like it. Weird.
A man at the car rental counter in California told me, a single woman in line, that my husband could drive my rental. Weird.
A man told me that women don’t have it so bad here because he’s seen it worse elsewhere and that I am way too sensitive about feminism. He took my comments about a problem with the system as a problem with him. Irony, maybe. Also weird.
A man told me that he hates to love me, but he loves me so damn much.
A man told me I’m the most beautiful person inside and out.
A woman told me I have no right to be self conscious, while another told me I have no right to be so confident.
A woman told me I was the most beautiful person inside out.
A woman told me she empathized with my pain about abuse.
A woman told me to heal myself so I can heal the world.
Turns out that most people’s opinions are far more revealing about how they see the world than how I see myself in it. So this is just a friendly reminder to stop worrying so much about other people’s opinions of you. We all have them, but it turns out that yours is the one that matters first.
10 years of life happened in between these two pictures. 30 years old and 40 years old. Lots of lessons, laughter, and tears occurred in the span of this decade. Lots of learning and growing. Deconstruction; then construction. I wish my 30 year old self had realized her value and worth ~ beyond the physical. Back then, I thought my gray hair would age me 20 years. I was scared to death of it. The fact is, my gray hair isn’t aging me like I thought it would. Gray hair, alone is not what ages us. And the truth is, even if it does - so what? We are getting older each day. There are matters which are far greater for me to focus my attention on. Perception and perspective is powerful. I choose to see each gray hair, every wrinkle, each curve and every mark as evidence that I’ve lived. I am living each day; a life that I love, with intentionality; with purpose. And as I look in the mirror and begin to notice the things that “age me”, I will choose to see that as evidence that I’m still here; that I’m proud of the life I am leading. Each and every breath is a gift. That is beautiful. I’m 45 weeks dye free TODAY! ❤️
Love yourself instead of loving the idea of other people loving you!
For me, I always said, once I lose weight I would love myself. I also said, once I lose weight, OTHER people will love me so much more! Maybe then I will be good enough to get their love AND then maybe I would love myself! 🙅🏼♀️
I was soooo far from the truth!!! We must love ourselves now! Not wait until we lose weight, get our dream job, have money, a significant other, or tons of friends. Our own self love is not based on how we look or how much we have or even who is by our side. 💗
I not going to wait to love myself until the conditions are right, because there is always going to be something we wish we could change or that we hope will come true for us. By putting conditions on our own love, we are just ultimately stopping it from ever happening and falling into this whole waiting game. 💜
Thinking others will like us more if we were different is absolutely ridiculous! This idea of others accepting us or putting value on us is crazy. If people cannot love you for who and what you right now- then they will never be able to love you if you “change” not will they be deserving of your love if they do decide to love you “after”.
So, let’s stop waiting, let’s stop putting conditions on our own self love and let’s stop waiting until the time is right. Let’s stop waiting to be accepted by others, and learn to accept ourselves! It is always the right time to love YOU! Right now. Just as you are! 😘